Book an In-Person Intensive with Derek and Jordan: Spirit-Filled, Christian Marriage Coaching
Get help navigating this difficult season well—gain the clarity you need in your emotions and decision making while walking in newfound peace.
Prevent separation by addressing root issues and restoring unity through faith.
Preventing Separation
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Built for The Things You're Facing Now...
Restoring Intimacy
Rebuild closeness through emotional, spiritual, and physical connection.
Healing from Infidelity
Move beyond betrayal, restore trust, and rebuild your marriage through God’s grace.
Battling Mental Attacks
Combat mental battles with spiritual tools and reclaim peace in your thoughts.
Sexual Immorality
Break free from immorality by aligning your desires with God’s will for purity.
Navigating Addictions
Overcome addictions with faith, accountability, and Christ-centered recovery.
Our Great Clients
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Unbounce is the world’s most sophisticated landing page builder. What’s to love about it? Well, marketers love the drag and drop builder and airtight integrations.
Marketing Manager
Sam Smith
Unbounce is the world’s most sophisticated landing page builder. What’s to love about it? Well, marketers love the drag and drop builder and airtight integrations.
Marketing Manager
Sam Smith
Unbounce is the world’s most sophisticated landing page builder. What’s to love about it? Well, marketers love the drag and drop builder and airtight integrations.
Marketing Manager
You never imagined this would be your marriage story...
This is not your end. God is ready to step in and bring restoration, peace, and clarity into your life. No matter how this season unfolds, you will emerge stronger, anchored in His love, and aligned with His purpose for your marriage and your future.
We are FOR you...
You were a son or daughter before you were ever a husband or a wife.
God moves through the covenant of family—this is why Satan attacks it relentlessly.
We are FOR your marriage...
Restoration is about going forward towards God's original design, not back to the old.
We are FOR your restoration...
We can't wait to see you in person soon!
Your Breakthrough is Near...
Most people come into an intensive not seeing a way through or out of their situation and walk away knowing God still has hope and purpose for this season.
Book Your Intensive & Fill Out Your Summary
When you sign up, you get immediate access to your Situation Summary and we will facilitate the scheduling and booking of your intensive dates.
Mark Your Calendar and Book Your Accommodations.
Whether we are hosting local to you, or you are coming to us in Franklin / Nashville, TN, we will help you navigate your bookings.
Show Up Ready and Willing
Intensives allows us to go deeper than 1hr virtual sessions because we are in person. It makes it flow easier when both spouses are willing and ready.
The Founders
Derek & Jordan Palizay
We are the founders of EstablishedFamily.com, a Spirit-led coaching and education platform created to help families heal, build, and grow a life anchored in Christ.
With 15 years of marriage, five children, and years of entrepreneurial experience, we’ve walked through both the beauty and the brokenness that come with building a family. We understand the weight of spiritual warfare, the complexity of relational wounds, and the longing to create something greater than ourselves—a multi-generational legacy rooted in Jesus.
Together with our children—Jayla, Jaiden, Jemma, Julian, and Journi—we are committed to living as an Established Family marked by truth, healing, and God’s design.
And now, that same mission is extended to you.
When you book a in person intensive, you’ll be meeting with one of our Established Family Certified Coaches or Counselors—each one personally trained, discipled, and equipped by us to carry the same Spirit-filled, biblically grounded heart for restoration and transformation. These leaders walk in both spiritual authority and practical wisdom, and have been entrusted to minister with the same conviction and care that defines this ministry.
Whether you’re seeking healing in your marriage, direction for your home, or clarity about your next step—our team is here to meet you in truth, fight for your breakthrough, and walk with you into God’s redemptive plan for your family.
We pray this is more than a session—it’s a turning point.
Let’s build what lasts.
Derek & Jordan Palizay
Founders, Established Family
Heal past wounds, overcome pain, and find freedom in Christ from trauma’s grip.
Historic Trauma
Clarity Through Divorce
Gain peace and guidance through the pain of divorce with God’s wisdom and love.
Backslidden Spouse
Lead your backslidden spouse back to Christ with prayer, patience, and hope.
Breakthrough in Finances
Align your financial life with God’s purpose for lasting provision and stewardship.
Spiritual Warfare
Arm yourself for spiritual battle with God’s truth, prayer, and unwavering faith.
Premarital Coaching
Build a Godly marriage that lasts with communication, faith, and purpose.
I just need to know...
Still, God is not done.
Book an In-Person Intensive with Derek and Jordan: Spirit-Filled, Christian Marriage CoachingCoaching
Get help navigating this difficult season well—gain the clarity you need in your emotions and decision making while walking in newfound peace.
Ready for the shift?
Step into the marriage that God designed for you and your spouse and experience newfound clarity.
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1-Day Intensive
$2,950
Includes A Single Followup Session
1 Day, 2 Sessions
Sessions are 3 hours
Local to you, or local to your coach/counselor.
2-Day Intensive
$5,000
Includes 8-Week Followup Sessions
2 Days, 3 Sessions
Sessions are 3 hours
Local to you, or local to your coach/counselor.
3-Day Intensive
$7,500
Includes 8-Week Followup Sessions
3 Days, 5 Sessions
Sessions are 3 hours
Local to you, or local to your coach/counselor.