Book a Session: Spirit-Filled, Christian Marriage Coaching

Get help navigating this difficult season well—gain the clarity you need in your emotions and decision making while walking in newfound peace.

Individual Spouse

$197

  • Situation Summary (pre-session)
  • 60-minute Breakthrough Session
  • 25 Page “Map of Transformation”

What's included:

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*High Demand—available per schedule

Prevent separation by addressing root issues and restoring unity through faith.

Preventing Separation

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Built for The Things You're Facing Now...

Restoring Intimacy

Rebuild closeness through emotional, spiritual, and physical connection.

Healing from Infidelity

Move beyond betrayal, restore trust, and rebuild your marriage through God’s grace.

Battling Mental Attacks

Combat mental battles with spiritual tools and reclaim peace in your thoughts.

Sexual Immorality

Break free from immorality by aligning your desires with God’s will for purity.

Navigating Addictions

Overcome addictions with faith, accountability, and  Christ-centered recovery.

Our Great Clients

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Marketing Manager

Sam Smith

Unbounce is the world’s most sophisticated landing page builder. What’s to love about it? Well, marketers love the drag and drop builder and airtight integrations. 

Marketing Manager

Sam Smith

Unbounce is the world’s most sophisticated landing page builder. What’s to love about it? Well, marketers love the drag and drop builder and airtight integrations.

Marketing Manager

Sam Smith

Unbounce is the world’s most sophisticated landing page builder. What’s to love about it? Well, marketers love the drag and drop builder and airtight integrations.

Marketing Manager

Who's coming to the breakthrough?

We want to make sure you have flexible options to address the things that matter now that could bring comfort and begin the path toward restoration.

Both Spouses

$247

  • Situation Summary (pre-session)
  • 60-minute Breakthrough Session
  • 25 Page “Map of Transformation”

What's included:

Sign Up

*High Demand—available per schedule

You never imagined this would be your marriage story... 

This is not your end. God is ready to step in and bring restoration, peace, and clarity into your life. No matter how this season unfolds, you will emerge stronger, anchored in His love, and aligned with His purpose for your marriage and your future.

We are FOR you...

You were a son or daughter before you were ever a husband or a wife.

God moves through the covenant of family—this is why Satan attacks it relentlessly.

We are FOR your marriage...

Restoration is about going forward towards God's original design, not back to the old.

We are FOR your restoration...

See You In Your Breakthrough Session!

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Your Breakthrough is Near...

Most people come into a breakthrough session not seeing a way through or out of their situation and walk away knowing God still has hope and purpose for this season.

Book Your Session & Fill Out Your Summary

When you sign up, you get immediate access to your Situation Summary and your Coaching portal to schedule your session at your own convenience.

Join Your 60-Minute Breakthrough

Spend an hour with Derek and Jordan working through the most pressing and impactful issues affecting your peace, clarity, and understanding.

Receive Your Map of Transformation

Don't walk away from a session with a cool experience but no clear direction on next steps—receive a customized 5-8pg Map of Transformation PDF.

Your Coaches

Derek & Jordan Palizay

We are the founders of EstablishedFamily.com, a dedicated coaching and education platform designed to help families heal, build, and grow a life in Christ. 

With 13 years of marriage, five children, and extensive entrepreneurial experience, we've witnessed firsthand the challenges that even healthy, Christ-centered families face today. 

Beyond the struggles of brokenness and dysfunction, many families grapple with asserting authority, exercising dominion, and building a multi-generational legacy rooted in Christ—striving to create something greater than themselves. 

Together with our children Jayla, Jaiden, Jemma, Julian, and Journi, we are committed to living as an Established Family anchored in God's teachings. Our mission is to guide and support other Kingdom families in achieving the same through our coaching programs. 

We understand the weight of spiritual battles and the importance of a strong, Godly foundation. 

That's why we offer personalized coaching that addresses the heart of your family’s struggles, providing practical, faith-based solutions to help you overcome challenges and thrive. 

Whether you are seeking restoration in your marriage, direction for your family, or guidance in building a legacy, we are here to support you every step of the way. 

Join us in establishing a legacy of faith, strength, and Godly purpose for your family. We pray that our coaching program becomes the catalyst for transformation and blessings in your life. 



Derek & Jordan Palizay

Heal past wounds, overcome pain, and find freedom in Christ from trauma’s grip.

Historic Trauma

Clarity Through Divorce

Gain peace and guidance through the pain of divorce with God’s wisdom and love.

Backslidden Spouse

Lead your backslidden spouse back to Christ with prayer, patience, and hope. 

Breakthrough in Finances

Align your financial life with God’s purpose for lasting provision and stewardship.

Spiritual Warfare

Arm yourself for spiritual battle with God’s truth, prayer, and unwavering faith.

Premarital Coaching

Build a Godly marriage that lasts with communication, faith, and purpose.

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I just need to know...

Am I supposed to leave? ...am I supposed to contend for this? ...do I set an ultimatum? ...do I engage or disengage? ...how long do I wait?

Still, God is not done.